Wellfound's "Ask a Recruiter" series brings job hunters face-to-face with real tech recruiters who share honest advice on how to get hired.
In our latest "Ask a Recruiter" session, we sat down with Alyssa Previti, Human Resources Director at Wellfound, who brings eight years of deep experience in startup talent acquisition and hiring processes. With her extensive background understanding how early-stage companies build their teams, Alyssa revealed the disconnect between what startup founders ask and what they actually want to know.
TL;DR:
Startup founders aren't looking for candidates who can work 60-hour weeks—they want self-starters who can build projects from zero to one and thrive in chaotic environments.
Her most eye-opening insight?
"Startups are looking for drive and initiative, but they're usually not great at asking those questions."
Instead, founders often default to questions about working long hours or handling crunch deadlines—which can feel like they're asking how close you're willing to get to burnout.
When a startup founder asks about "working in a startup culture" or "handling tight deadlines," they're not trying to gauge your tolerance for exhaustion. Alyssa explains:
"Really what these startup founders are looking for is: do you have the drive and initiative to work on this small team where we don't have things figured out yet?"
The key is recognizing that most early-stage founders are still figuring out their interview process. They care deeply about the role—often more than anyone else in the world—but they haven't yet learned how to ask the right questions to uncover what they need.
What they actually want to hear:
"The number one thing is to communicate how you can feel safe during chaos," Alyssa emphasizes. This is perhaps the most critical skill for startup success that candidates often overlook.
When you're joining a seed-stage company, you're typically one of the early hires on a team that's still figuring everything out. The ability to not just survive but actually build things while navigating uncertainty is what separates successful startup employees from those who struggle.
In your prescreen interview, share specific examples of how you've:
The classic "tell me about yourself" question hits differently at startups versus large corporations. Alyssa notes:
"At a larger company they are looking for processes, knowledge and how to navigate the red tape...But startups are looking for momentum and drive."
For startups, your story should highlight:
Avoid the common trap of describing situations where someone else noticed a problem and directed you to fix it. Founders want to hear about your internal motivation and ability to self-direct.
Instead of preparing answers about working long hours, Alyssa suggests reframing around what success actually looks like:
"What is a successful week to you? It might not even be a full 40-hour week, but it's: I had an idea, I brought it to the team, I built it, I troubleshot it, and I shipped it."
This framework helps you prepare stories that showcase:
Value creation over time spent
A successful week might involve working Monday through Thursday on a project you conceived and shipped, then taking Friday to recharge—and that's exactly what founders want to hear.
Your interview preparation should vary based on the startup's stage:
Seed Stage: "Just getting the band together"
Series B/C: "Maybe on a tour bus"
Early-stage startup technical interviews often feel different because "they probably haven't seen what success looks like with the question yet." Alyssa recommends treating these sessions like "a paired programming session with a colleague or friend to build something together."
Key strategies:
This approach gives founders a preview of what daily collaboration will look like after they hire you.
"A startup founder conducting interviews for the first time is interviewing for something that's deeply personal to them"
Alyssa explains. Unlike experienced recruiters who've met hundreds of candidates, founders are new to the process but care more about the outcome than anyone.
To help them succeed (and stand out yourself):
Remember: if information seems missing from the job description, it's not because they're being secretive—they just haven't written many job descriptions before.
"Enthusiasm is the secret key to moving forward from the screen...Come with a positive attitude towards what they're working on. You don't even have to know all the ins and outs to really show that you're excited to solve problems and work on it with them."
Alyssa explains that genuine excitement about the company's mission and problems they're solving often matters more than perfect technical knowledge. Founders want partners who are energized by the challenges ahead, not just candidates checking boxes.
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